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Alternatives to Vaginal Intercourse

That's NOT all there is. There are many different way to have sex play without vaginal intercourse. The following is just to get your imagination going. The rest is up to you.
Of course, you can make all or some of them part of your regular love-making if you are having intercourse.

Body Rubbing
Using parts of your body or your entire body to rub against your partner
bringing them sexual pleasure and orgasms is body rubbing. This can be fully clothed (safer if you are practicing abstinence) or naked (as a form of foreplay).
You do not enter any body cavity with body rubbing, just rub against each other.

Erotica
First the difference between erotica and hard core pornography.
Erotica stimulates the sexual imagination by words, pictures, and music in telling of sexual adventures and situations but letting your imagination be part of the implicit not explicit nature of the material.

(obtained: Medical Tribune)

Pornography is explicit portrayal of sex in books, movies, or pictures.
Reading erotic stories to each - maybe over the phone?

Looking at pictures
Watching soft core movies together, using your imagination to
guide you and discussing the places you will go when you make the decision.
All of these an help the sexual frustration you may feel. They can also enhance your love-making, once you begin.

(obtained: Medical Tribune)

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Erotic Massage
Erotic massage is a slow SENSUAL massage that uses your hands, mouth and body to stimulate your partner. It can include long strokes, oral sex, mutual masturbation
and anything else that feels good to your partner. If you are abstaining, you can bring your partner to climax with your hands or mouth. If you are having intercourse, you can end with that and use this as a preliminary foreplay method.

Masturbation
Everyone does it - even if they won't and don't admit it.
Self pleasuring is the most common form of sex play. And the oldest. You can share this with your partner and either masturbate each other or watch each other masturbate. If you are already having sex with your partner, this can increase
the intimacy and pleasure for each of you.

Role Play
Fantasies Acting out fantasies - up to the point of intercourse, can be fun, exciting,
and freeing for your imagination. Using costumes can certainly help and make it even more fun. If you have decided to remain abstinent, you need to make an agreement with your partner that you will only go to a point. Think of it as primer for all the things you can put in your computer brain to complete when the time comes for you. If you are having sex, this can add to the pleasure.

Toys
There are many different sex toys available now. Vibrators, dildos, and clitoral
stimulators can be shared with your partner. They can give pleasure without intercourse and intensify sexual pleasure with it. You can stroke, probe, stimulate, caress, and obtain orgasm using these devises. Two Rules about using toys are vitally important:
(1.) Always clean toys after each use and between use on each body part or partner.
(2.) If you use condoms to cover them, always use fresh condoms with each partner and body part. They can be ordered discreetly through the Internet.

Virtual Sex
Using on-line chat rooms to have virtual sex. (Don't knock it unless you have tried it.) It involves a lot of imagination and masturbation to get a climax. You don't need to worry about birth control, STD's or your partner (even if the person is not your real partner).